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How To Know If Someone Wants a Relationship

As most people know, dating someone and being in a relationship with them are two different things, and there will come a point where that dating has to end, and either the two of you go your separate ways, or you start something more committed and serious.

Sometimes, it can be hard to know what to do, not because you don’t know how you feel, but because you don’t know how the other person feels. The last thing you want to do is find yourself in an embarrassing and awkward situation. With that in mind, here are some of the signs that someone might want to start a relationship. When you know them, you can act accordingly, depending on what it is you want too.

They Always Make Time To See You

If someone wants to be in a long-term, serious relationship with you, they are going to make the time they need to see you, no matter what. They will change other plans and move other commitments to ensure they can spend time with you.

This is a positive thing. If they’re making that much effort, it must mean they want to be with you, and they’re not doing it out of some obligation or because they have nothing else to do so they might as well spend some time with you.

Of course, you must also be careful. If someone is interested in spending all their time with you and you’ve only dated once or twice, then they are coming on too strong, and it’s best to back away for a while, as you don’t want to be in an uncomfortable relationship.

They Make Commitments

Perhaps you’ve noticed that your boyfriend or girlfriend has begun to make minor commitments within your relationship. Maybe they’ve talked about the future they see with you, or perhaps they’ve said I love you. They’ve stopped dating other people, assuming they ever did. They might even be willing to try different things in the bedroom, perhaps visiting to find out what’s available, because they want to be with you.

Whatever it is they’re doing, once you notice it, you’ll see that they are subtly hinting at wanting to be in a closer, more serious relationship. From clothes left in a drawer at your house to asking to meet your parents, they certainly want something more.

They Are Themselves

One of the most important signs to look out for is that the person you are with is themselves when they are around you. Everyone puts on a kind of mask and act when they first meet someone; they want to be liked, and they are on their best behavior. As time goes on, that mask will slip – it has to – and the real person beneath will be shown.

This is good in two ways. The first is that you can get to know the real person and decide whether you like them or not. The second is that once that person is comfortable enough to be themselves around you, it’s a hint they are ready to take the next step in your relationship.

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